Ravana was resting near Kailasa on a magical full moon night. He accosted a damsel decked in her fineries. She said she was Rambha, wife of Nalakubara, son of his own brother Kubera. She asked him to treat her like his own daughter. Ravana argued that “common rules of conduct do not apply to celestial ladies” and seized her by force.
Rambha fled to Nalakubara, who cursed Ravana: “If you ever embrace a lady without her will, may your head shatter into seven pieces!” From then on Ravana could not touch any lady without consent.
In the Valmiki Ramayana, in Yuddha Kanda, Ravana himself explains that he cannot violate Sita because of a curse from Brahma. This curse was pronounced after Ravana forcibly assaulted the apsara Punjikasthala; Brahma decreed that if he ever again approached a woman against her will, his head would shatter into many pieces.
Later traditions of Valmiki Ramayana narrate the incident of Rambha though it is not considered part of the critical text.
These traditions together explain why Ravana, despite abducting Sita, cannot touch her. Mistakenly and entirely wrongly, this is attributed to the feminist nature of Ravana.
Picture Credit: Chandamama
Ravana was resting near Kailasa on a magical full moon night. He accosted a damsel decked in her fineries. She said she was Rambha, wife of Nalakubara, son of his own brother Kubera. She asked him to treat her like his own daughter. Ravana argued that “common rules of conduct do not apply to celestial ladies” and seized her by force.
Rambha fled to Nalakubara, who cursed Ravana: “If you ever embrace a lady without her will, may your head shatter into seven pieces!” From then on Ravana could not touch any lady without consent.
In the Valmiki Ramayana, in Yuddha Kanda, Ravana himself explains that he cannot violate Sita because of a curse from Brahma. This curse was pronounced after Ravana forcibly assaulted the apsara Punjikasthala; Brahma decreed that if he ever again approached a woman against her will, his head would shatter into many pieces.
Later traditions of Valmiki Ramayana narrate the incident of Rambha though it is not considered part of the critical text.
These traditions together explain why Ravana, despite abducting Sita, cannot touch her. Mistakenly and entirely wrongly, this is attributed to the feminist nature of Ravana.
Picture Credit: Chandamama